In Better Marriage, we share practical, faith-filled tools for loving well, communicating clearly, and building a marriage that grows stronger through every season.
In Better Marriage, we share practical, faith-filled tools for loving well, communicating clearly, and building a marriage that grows stronger through every season.
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Practical conversations on faith, relationships, and real life.
Build a marriage that keeps getting better in every season.
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Ken and Tabatha Claytor help people grow in faith and build healthier relationships with practical teaching rooted in Scripture. For nearly two decades, they’ve served as pastors, mentors, and leaders, helping individuals and couples strengthen their foundation and fall in love with Jesus.
Husband and wife, parents of three, and best friends in real life.
Because love deserves more than one day. This bundle gives you a simple rhythm to stay connected: the Better Marriage Bootcamp (digital) plus Butterfly Love and two Better Marriage devotionals shipped to you for just $227.
We’ve been married for over 27 years, and if there’s one thing we know for sure, it’s that loving each other doesn’t automatically mean you’ll always know how to love each other well.
We’ve had incredible seasons, hard seasons, seasons when we felt completely in sync, and seasons when we wondered how we had gotten so far apart. There was even a time when we weren’t sure our marriage was going to make it. What changed wasn’t that we became perfect at marriage.
WE JUST GOT BETTER TOOLS.
We learned how to communicate differently, how to fight for each other instead of against each other, how to forgive, how to grow individually, and how to keep God at the center of a relationship between two imperfect people.
That’s really what we want to give you in this book: better tools. Because we believe that the right tools, applied with intention and the grace of God, can help you build a better marriage too.



We’ve been married for over 27 years, and if there’s one thing we know for sure, it’s that loving each other doesn’t automatically mean you’ll always know how to love each other well.
We’ve had incredible seasons, hard seasons, seasons when we felt completely in sync, and seasons when we wondered how we had gotten so far apart. There was even a time when we weren’t sure our marriage was going to make it. What changed wasn’t that we became perfect at marriage.
WE JUST GOT BETTER TOOLS.
We learned how to communicate differently, how to fight for each other instead of against each other, how to forgive, how to grow individually, and how to keep God at the center of a relationship between two imperfect people.
That’s really what we want to give you in this book: better tools. Because we believe that the right tools, applied with intention and the grace of God, can help you build a better marriage too.

A better marriage doesn’t happen by accident. It happens on purpose. The Better Marriage Bootcamp is a 12-week, faith-centered growth path that helps you rebuild connection, strengthen communication, and break the cycles that keep showing up.
This isn’t theory for us. We’ve walked through hard seasons, done the work, and watched God restore what we didn’t think could be restored. We created this Bootcamp to give couples a clear structure, practical tools, and consistent guidance, so growth doesn’t just stay a good intention.
What this helps you do:
✓ Get on the same page again
✓ Communicate without shutting down or exploding
✓ Rebuild trust and strengthen emotional connection
✓ Create new habits that make your relationship feel healthier and lighter
Marriage counseling can cost $200+ per session. This Bootcamp gives you a full 12-week roadmap with tools you can use for life, for less than a single visit.

✓ 12 Weeks of On-Demand Teaching you can watch at your pace
✓ Guided Conversations & Tools to help you apply what you’re learning
✓ 90-Day Better Marriage Devotional + Toolkit with prompts, templates, and resources
✓ Lifetime Access to all course content
"...your bootcamp is really a blessing for us ..."
My wife and I are doing your bootcamp together. It is really a blessing for us and we are thankful for your help.
Like you always say, you make bad marriages to good, good marriages to better and better marriages to of this world. But you forget… ;)) sometimes you make bad marriages to marriages direct out of this world. 👍
Thank you both from all of our hearts, your work is a blessing.
Greetings from Hamburg Germany,
- John-Oliver K.

"...thanks for being so real and transparent!"
We’ve been following the reels and podcast for a while now, but the Bootcamp has taken things deeper. As a newly married couple, we’re still learning each other and realizing just how important it is to build on a solid, God-centered foundation. This journey is helping us reflect, plan, and grow together.
Session six on navigating conflict really hit home—we could relate so much. Thank you for being so real and transparent. We’re excited to keep going and believe this Bootcamp is setting us up to take our marriage to the next level. In God’s holy name—Amen!
- C. Simmons


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